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Woman B: I honestly don't have a preference between uppercase and lowercase d/Deaf.
I see making a distinction between the two often divides the culturally proud Deaf from those who have a similar experience and shared oppressions, but are maybe not friends with tons of Deaf people or what have you (because of accessibility and other factors).
In this week's Sex Talk Realness, spoke with three women who are deaf to find out what it's really like to date as someone who is differently abled. Now, I have started to refer to myself as deaf because I no longer think it's such a bad thing.
There's never really a point when I asked myself, "Will my lack of hearing impact this experience?
" Sex is about what you communicate with your partner.
Woman C: I was so nervous I wouldn't be able to hear the guys I went out with and they'd think I was ditzy, but most of the guys I went on dates with didn't seem to mind repeating themselves. The only difference I could think of would be a deaf person would have less awareness about noise level, but it does depend on your partner. Woman A: The benefits were that they could help me to order food in restaurants and communicate with people.
When I began having sex as a teenager, I was really nervous that they'd accidentally see my cochlear implants and be weirded out. They might say I took advantage of her because of her disability." I've never had a guy say those things to me, but that was my biggest worry. If they know they're noisy, they'll just restrain it as much as possible. The drawbacks were that they didn't understand what it is like to not be able to hear.
The best part is I don't have to listen to anyone's weird sex noises. It has some challenges, but for the most part it's pretty much the same.
We're people with the same needs, wants, desires, and interests as anyone else.
If it's in the act, I'll usually just say "nope." There's really no need to articulate why it isn't working right in the moment, since it kills the mood.
Woman C: Whether I have cochlear implants on or not, I just tell them.
I'd also have to try and find a well-lit place so I could see him and read his lips.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating