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Sure you have those once in a million times where the man actually leaves his wife for another, but for the most part, it is a script for adultery disaster.

The love affair with the married man starts with a man who married for the wrong reasons and thus never truly felt fulfilled in his commitment to the wife.

By this time, she is more than likely already aware of the fact that he is unhappy in his marriage and the more time she spends with him she makes sure to plea her case as to why he should be with her instead.

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They probably have kids together and that is the only bond they share.

The ideal woman for this guy is the girl who has been hurt many times by single men and is in the stage where she just wants someone to love her.

If she expresses it, he already has his reasoning – 1) she knew he was married, and 2) he never said he was leaving his wife.

Sure there are a few people who actually leave their wives when they have met their “soul mate”. Although he gets to the point where he is saying he loves the side chick, he is usually more in love with his kids.

After they meet and exchange conversation, he realizes what he has been missing at home and decides to pursue his happiness with her on the side.

However, filling the void may backfire on him, as the relationship may escalate from occasional lunches during work hours or early dinners disguised as “working late”, to the more intimate texting and instant messages all night long.

My 6-year-old son said to his mom: “Mom, don’t marry him, it will make dad cry.” She got upset at me and accused me of coaching our son to say this to her.

Of course, I would never put my son in the middle of our problems. I don’t think they’ve even adjusted to the fact that their parents are divorced.

When you have someone with kids, the kids come first (as they should) and I can’t compete with that priority. Why should I settle for less than I know I want and deserve. You need to work around the custody and children’s schedule. In my age range many men who are single have had children.

The cycle of the love affair with a married man almost always ends in broken hearts, hurt, and wasted time.

I’ve said before that partner priority relationships is where I’m at. Now I know it’s not always that black and white and some men really do have their shit together and can balance their lives, but that’s the exception to the rule. They are also more affectionate from what I’ve experienced. That’s when I decided that this probably isn’t for me. I don’t hate kids, I love kids, I just don’t want to deal that’s all. I do date men with kids over 18 though, they don’t really need their parents as much. I rarely go there so don’t ask and please don’t get offended.

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