Dating for 12 19 yr olds
There are times where one person might inspire change in another person, but it’s because the other person wanted the change themselves as well.There are times where one person will get their act together because they’re afraid to lose something good or they’re determined to win something good.
Most aren’t even consciously aware of those feelings.
But if you can see past your own hurts and desires, you’ll see men everywhere trying to fill emotional voids through their actions and achievements.
because I know there are women reading this thinking, “Why should a woman do for this flirtatious disrespectful pig of a man? Here’s the deal – you’re asking me this question because you do not find his behavior acceptable. A guy always knows a woman’s limit is measured by how much she’s willing to tolerate.
And yet, you’ve been demonstrating to him that you’re OK with it. Women feel this instinctively and will usually try to put up a front, claiming that they won’t stand for his bad behavior and making empty threats.
But I can’t think of a time where the insecurity of one partner inspired a change in the other partner.
Especially when the insecure partner isn’t willing to walk away regardless of whether or not they get what they want.
The fact is, he has these sexy flirtations with other women, but you don’t really know why…
you don’t know his motivation or what he “gets” from it.
When men act out in whatever way they act out, you’ll find what I just described at the heart of the matter: a deep feeling of separateness, insignificance and undesirability.
Most guys would never admit to feeling anything like that.
If you want the relationship to move forward, find deeper areas where you can reach him and inspire him.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating