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Gerald Rogers’ article stirred a wide variety of feelings among people across the globe. We read letters from women in Malaysia comforting women in England.

A man in Germany responded with some of the deepest insights I’ve read in years.

Men in USA and Singapore spoke healing words to men in Europe and India.

After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had:1. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love. Protect your own heart Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance.

Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife.

She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.)15.

Be vulnerable…You don’t have to have it all together. But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward.Don’t worry about money Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.19. Forgive immediately..focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back. Sometimes she will need to fly from your branches to go and find what feeds her soul, and if you give her that space she will come back with new songs to sing.(Okay, getting a little too poetic here, but you get the point.Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids.Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.11. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.13.

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