Dating someone with child
He will make time for you if he’s truly invested in getting to know you.
But NEVER think it’s okay to put him in a position where he has to choose between spending time with his kid or quality time with you.
Dating a man with children is always a delicate situation, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t.
But you should consider these things before you dive in too deep.
If he has a child, what type of dealings does he have with the child’s mother? How would that potentially affect you in terms of dating?
If avoiding drama with the mother doesn’t seem doable, then run for the hills and never look back.
What I’m really here to talk about is dating a middle child.
I’m not one, but I’m here to tell you that if you are it’s okay.
Again, while I liked him, I learned that he was not an upfront person, and Still, I learned a lot from that situation.
Even though my friends and I swore that we would never date men with children, I’m learning that having kids doesn’t automatically make you unsuitable for dating.
We exchanged account names for social media, and I learned through his Instagram that he had a daughter. I thought about what I had said when I was in college: A man with kids is a no-no. I don’t want to be groomed to be a child’s stepmother.
But then I had to think about dating from the perspective of a parent.
You will never fully get to experience or enjoy your relationship if there’s always a third party stirring the pot.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating