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Women have told him that they prefer to see faces to cocks, so he keeps his camera pointing higher, à la Beautiful Agony.And just so you know, these women aren't saying "I'd rather see your face" to avoid hurting his feelings. But even those of us who delight in dicks want to see your facial expressions, too.Some rooms warn you first."Not everyone uses a webcam during chat, while others – especially couples – connect their home video cameras to their computers and provide the highest quality video."It's really nice when the couples are on cam together," says Kirk.

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Throughout our interview, I notice that he often uses the word "play" to describe what people do while in the room.

That's not a term often associated with depression or obsession, two conditions in which you forget how to play.

He advises newbies to introduce themselves, to jump into the chat and start talking.

"When someone gets to know you, they might add you to their (friend) list," he says. I know people who do that all the time, but they don't do it with complete strangers."Kirk has been a member for almost four years, and rarely has cybersex anymore.

And if you're not willing to make the investment, go to a cam-girl site and pay to play instead.

Because I've been an observer but not sexually active online for the past few years, I called up Kirk (not his real name), an administrator in an adults-only webcam community.

I've never found that to work."In other words, don't be put off by a tightly knit community where everyone seems to know each other, where the inside jokes and innuendoes fly around as you attempt to introduce yourself.

If you're respectful and patient and smart, you'll become a part of it sooner than you think."I enjoy the power trip (of being an admin)," Kirk says, laughing.

It could just mean you'd rather engage and relate than zombie-out in front of the television.

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