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If you can create interest in a woman and have her reply to your message, there are much better chances this will develop to something.This is not some lady who browsed your ad and replied out of boredom, this is a lady that wants to get to know you.

They assume (and rightfully so) that all the men worth contacting have already sent them a reply.

Another thing worth mentioning here is something I learned from selling software: the best leads are the ones you have made the first contact with, not the ones that found you by "shopping around"!

You can put your picture if you want but from my personal experience I found that it doesn't really affect the number of replies.

Here's the ad I placed: Wouldn't it be surprisingly wonderful for you to meet a very special man on the Internet? I'm intelligent, direct, very honest and a little goofballish (in a positive way... I have a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor but I know when to restrain myself.

If this sounds like you then please reply and we'll take it from there. But I did use a very similar text and got some very enthusiastic replies!

As you can see, some basic information about me and what I'm looking for with the occasional smart-ass remark (after all, I can't deny who I am). I sent this message to girls whose writing style (in their ads) indicated that they might be open to this kind of "humor". Remember: the purpose of the first email is to get the woman curious and have her reply with or without checking out your ad.

Okay, so I'm not trying to tell you that your ad is totally unimportant, but it's definitely not the most important thing.

It should be simple, honest, clean (of spelling and grammar mistakes, as well as bad language) and straight to the point. but don't spice it up too much or you'll risk scaring people away. and don't give away your life story and most intimate desires... Remember: the purpose of your ad is to provide some basic information about you to the women you will write to.

Many women I talked to have told me that during the first weekend after they placed their ad they got about a hundred (yes, HUNDRED) replies.

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