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Am I saying that those who date outside of their culture are not in tune with their own?

Love blinds common sense.” “No Nigerian, Ghanaian or Jamaican man is welcome in my house. Why is it better for me to be with a white man than it is to be with a Nigerian? How many marriages do you know of people from two different African countries that have lasted till old age? I pondered those phrases: “It’s for your own good” and “stick to your own”.

Stop wasting your time; you’ll regret it when you get older. It’s for your own good”, said her mother, adamantly.

I went to a secondary school that was predominantly West African and attended a university that was predominantly white, so my choices were wide and I dated a few of those choices.

In fact I wasn’t into my own culture as much because I grew up along a lot of other nationalities, in what I call “London culture”.

And why was it better to date a white person rather than another African?

Some field digging I did a bit of digging to get the views of other people of African origin on intercultural dating.

I bet everyone wants to know what I believe a Non-African woman should know before dating an African men. Okay before I begin let me just say: Am I saying all African men are the same? Here’s a list of what you can expect so you are well prepared: 1) Henny, dark liquor, Stout, or Heinkein or other heavy beers are their drink of choice. Oyinbo/Akata: Have at least a case in your house, if your man drinks alcohol and comes to your place and sees you have some, he will be a happy man. No African man is always going to want to do take out or go to a restaurant all the time. 3) Meat and fish are your best friend: I don’t care, I have yet to meet an African man that doesn’t like meat or fish.

However, our fine brothers have started looking into other ethnicities and are beginning to date interracially (putting their chocolate cookie in sugar cookies, raisin cookies, and Macadamia cookies) and it’s okay. There are lots of handsome men out there, in different continents and countries so I’m here to give advice on some things a Non African woman should have in the back of her head when dating an African man. A Nigerian man loves with his belly amongst other things. Oyinbo/Akata: Cook your favorite meals, make sure it’s good, Nigerian men are spoiled by the sweet taste of their mother’s cooking so you are going to have to put that work in the kitchen.

It didn’t help when I went to their houses and the family would purposely speak in their language to exclude me, which reminded me that I wasn’t one of them.

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