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We worked together so I certainly wasn't giving him money--we made about the same.Though there weren't that many years difference between us, it sort of bothered me.And he went on to say it would be even hotter if I were in my 30s or 40s !!??
It sucks for me, at 41, because most guys my own age whom I try to date are hung up on much younger or older..don't stay in their age range. Straight men and gay men want younger partners, obsess about younger partners, and pay through the sphincter for younger partners. Gay women can try to date at all ages without being jeered at. Iâm now in my mid-50s, and I had a partner for almost 20 years until he died a few years ago.
I've always been one to seek out men for relationships who have been on earth about as long as I have, because that's where the most comfort and commonality can occur with a stranger. I don't know if it's because I didn't have a relationship in my 20s or because the younger guys have the look that attracts me -- not many guys in their 40s can pull off the hipster look and not appear ridiculous. I then realized that dating as a 50-year-old was going to be a lot more difficult than when I was 30 for a variety of reasons, including (a) there just arenât as many guys in my age group; and (b) a lot of them are already partnered. OP, I'm 49, I have no particular interest in guys in their 20s or even their 30s for the most part, but I'm on Scruff and I'm constantly getting messages, woofs, etc., from guys in their 20s - much more than any other age bracket. If you plan to visit the daddy sites that are recommended here, you'd better beef up your bank account.
So what you are saying you only have ten years left to live beacuse you are so shallow that you think if you look 45 - Its not worth living?
You better get a handle on your old age now or you are in for a shock. [quote]I'm 44, but look 34, thanks to very good genetics and a healthy lifestyle Oh, dear - another eldergay trying to convince themselves they look 10 years younger than they are. " comments when I mention that I'm 44 to know that it's true.
OP, why not try your luck on a "normal" dating site and include your preference in your profile?
No, R16, but I think some examination about 'not into guys my own age' is warranted.
They see me as a slightly older contemporary, as one of their peers.
Being gay, if I was cursed to appear anywhere near my chronological age, I'd probably end it here and now r46 and you will be 45 on your birthday- It changes nothing and when you are 55 you will look 45-.
I am 45, not quite elder-gay but definitely middle-aged (in the truest sense, since I expect to live to be 90, at least). I am most definitely not looking to be a sugar daddy or any kind of daddy for that matter. Are there any dating websites geared toward this demographic, preferably one that isn't promoting a fetish, like silver daddy or bears, etc.?
Doll, in gay years you're not just an eldergay you're pretty much in God's waiting room.
They don't want to date guys their own age because, in the words of a friend of mine, they don't want to just "sit home every night, watch tv and fuck". If you're smart you'll get over your crisis and look for guys your own age. I'm 35, when I was in my 20s I couldn't get a date at all.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating