Tips on what to say on dating sites

By writing this in your profile, you’re telling people that you’re not smart or self-aware enough to write it yourself.Most living grown-ups have a history of exes, hang-ups and maybe a nervous breakdown or two. They know that you have a past, but they don’t want to hear about it. Some online dating profiles read like shopping lists.Safety is still safety and being safe ALL the time is a better bet than trusting your gut with someone you have never met, don’t ya think?

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Learn from your bad and boring dates and try again.

You’re two grown-ups, not a sugardaddy and his gold-digger.

It was kinda easy to WOO and WOW women on the phone and they not only thought me safe, they felt an almost unique connection with me.

Now I mostly would talk to moms, because as a dad, I thought them safe. Just because they read a profile and a few correspondences or shared one cocktail at a bar, they felt they knew me and felt comfortable.

As a man who is an excellent communicator and emotionally connected, I was one of the most dangerous of daters.

Because some women felt an instant chemistry and even a spiritual connection with me, as if they had known me all their life…“he’s different so he must be safe.” Well the good news is that I was and am safe and so are most guys.

However, is it really worth taking the risk for the 1-2% who might be dangerous?

As your heart protector, here are some common sense safety tips when you think he’s different: First, meet in a public place.

Meeting and building quick rapport is so easy online and lately I’ve noticed that women all too often let their guard down, lose their common sense or abandon their self protection to a total stranger.

Reflecting back to when I was single and looking after my divorce, I’m shocked at how easily a woman WHO I DID NOT KNOW would invite me to her home (having never met me before) after a few chats via phone/email/text.

It’s very unusual for someone to find a good match in their first few attempts.

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